What Does It Mean To Be A Powerful Woman?

What Does It Mean To Be A Powerful Woman?


Powerful does not mean having a lot of connections, money or holding an important position at work. Powerful means fearless.

It means not being influenced by the opinion of others. It means going with the flow and not analyzing your every move or word coming out of your mouth.

It means not apologizing for who you are.


The most challenging thing is convincing yourself that you are this person. That you are this self- aware, not giving damn, bold individual. You have to believe in it before other do. You can not fake being fearless. Putting a red lipstick on and walking around asking people if it looks OK is not fearless. There is nothing more magnetizing than a woman with self awareness.

Yesterday I was a witness to this very interesting situation at the gym. This very pretty, skinny girl stood in front of the mirror and said to her friend: “ I think this mirror purposely makes you look bigger than you normally are.”  Her friend, that was obese, stood in front of it and said: “No it doesn’t.” I instantly wanted to become friends with her. I wanted to hang out with that super confident in her own body girl.
Those girls do not need approval and validation from others. They do not seek perfection, because perfection does not exist. They take themselves for who they are and they run with it… fearless and carefree. THIS is more sexier than looks.

SET YOURSELF FREE. BE YOURSELF AND YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO CHASE PEOPLE AGAIN, THEY WILL COME TO YOU.

Let me tell you, THOSE are the girls that have loving boyfriends and satisfying jobs. Sadly, usually the most beautiful women are the ones with low self-esteem. Stop comparing yourself to others, ladies!  You are loosing on all fronts. Set yourself free. Be yourself and you will never have to chase people again, they will come to you.

THEY DO NOT SEEK PERFECTION, BECAUSE PERFECTION DOES NOT EXIST. THEY TAKE THEMSELVES FOR WHO THEY ARE AND THEY RUN WITH IT… FEARLESS AND CAREFREE.

For years I have had a great run. I was making a ton of money, I was dating the most amazing men, and I had great opportunities coming at me on every corner.  Then something terrible happened and at that time I thought it was the end of the world. I thought that it was because of my “who cares” attitude and my badass character.  I thought that the world was trying to teach me a lesson and tell me that it was time to change who I was. I thought it was time to become a more proper, people- pleasing, and authority- abiding person. I thought It would make me more mature and professional. Nothing further from the truth. It wasn’t me. I felt vulnerable and weak. Asking for permission to do something when old Judy would just grab what she deserves without asking, just wasn’t my thing.
I realized that life treats me much better when I don’t worry about things and people. I feel empowered and in control, when I don’t analyze my every move, gesture or word coming out of my mouth. I don’t mean in a disrespectful, arrogant and rebellious kind of way. I mean in a way, when you know yourself so well that you don’t need anyone else to validate who you are and what you are capable of.
I no longer blame myself when something bad happens. Some things are just not meant to be. Do not criticize yourself and do not apologize for who you are. Do not change because one thing does not work out. Keep being yourself (unless you are clearly a horrible person lol). Don’t let your priorities, plans and goals be dictated by other people.

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